2 Samuel 8. The Death of David’s Son (2 Samuel 12:14-31) 14. They are the first two of four books of Kings in the Latin Vulgate. Amnon was attracted to Tamar for what he could get from her, not out of concern for her. They were born of different mothers. Tamar was simply a reminder of his foolish sin. Poetical Books Since the text and audio content provided by BLB represent a 2 Samuel 21. And it came to pass, while they were on the way, that news came to David, saying, “Absalom has killed all the king’s sons, and not one of them is left!” So the king arose and tore his garments and lay on the ground, and all his servants stood by with their clothes torn. i. Minor Prophets So she said to him, “No, indeed! i. “As David had committed adultery, made Uriah drunk, and then murdered him: so Amnon committeth incest, is made drunk, and [is] then murdered.” (Trapp). Tamar--daughter of David by Maachah ( 2 Samuel 3:3).. 2. for she was a virgin--Unmarried daughters were kept in close seclusion from the company of men; no strangers, nor even their relatives of the other sex, being permitted to see them without the presence of witnesses.Of course, Amnon must have seen Tamar, for he had conceived a … -------------------- For only Amnon is dead.” Then Absalom fled. But David didn't do this. And Absalom her brother said to her, “Has Amnon your brother been with you? In particular, David is resented by elements of Saul's tribe of Benjamin, who believe that Saul's house should still be on the throne (2 Samuel 16:5-13; 20:1-2). In 2 Samuel 13:1–20 we read that David’s son Amnon lusted after his half-sister Tamar. i. “There is something exceedingly tender and persuasive in this speech of Tamar; but Amnon was a mere brute, and it was all lost on him.” (Clarke). b. 2 Samuel 13:1-5.AMNON LOVES TAMAR. Then Tamar put ashes on her head, and tore her robe of many colors that was on her, and laid her hand on her head and went away crying bitterly. Conclusions BSF Study Questions People of the Promised Land 1 Lesson 21 Day 2: 2 Samuel 13: Question 5 is the first question I’ve seen in 2 or 3 years that are just like the old questions. i. “A friend no friend; a carnal friend, a spiritual enemy, who advised, for the recovery of the body, the ruin of his soul.” (Trapp). A robe of many colors: The idea behind the Hebrew phrase is that it was a robe extending all the way down to the wrists and ankles, as opposed to a shorter one. Thank you for registering. -------------------- Sin destroys lives, relationships, and families. Minor Prophets a. Absalom fled and went to Talmai the son of Ammihud, king of Geshur: Absalom did not go to a city of refuge because he was guilty, and the cities of refuge were only meant to protect the innocent. After this Absalom the son of David had a lovely sister, whose name was Tamar; and Amnon the son of David loved her. (2Sa 13:19-20) Tamar mourns, Absalom comforts her. We learn that immorality creates dysfunction in … 2 Samuel 13 – Amnon, Tamar, and Absalom A. Amnon and Tamar. Then Amnon hated her exceedingly, so that the hatred with which he hated her was greater than the love with which he had loved her. General Epistles So the servants of Absalom did to Amnon as Absalom had commanded: God promised David that the sword shall never depart from your house (2 Samuel 12:10) in judgment of David’s sin. 3 Now Amnon had an adviser named Jonadab son of Shimeah, David’s brother. c. Amnon the son of David loved her: Amnon longed for Tamar so much that he became lovesick. Let not my lord suppose they have killed all the young men: Jonadab brought the “good” news to David that only Amnon is dead, and dead because he forced his sister Tamar. Amnon lusted after Tamar and called it love. 12. A few years ago, several of our daughters were with my wife Jeannette and me on the way home from a school function. b. Absalom fled and went to Geshur: This made sense for Absalom because his mother’s father was the king of Geshur (2 Samuel 3:3). (2 Samuel 7:18-29). Tragedy in the Royal Family (2 Samuel 13:1-36) 15. Pauline Epistles b. a. Absalom the son of David had a lovely sister, whose name was Tamar: This brother and sister were the children of David through his wife Maacah, who was the daughter of Talmai, king of Geshur (2 Samuel 3:3). 2 Samuel 11. Wisdom Literature The tragic story of Absalom’s rebellion to his father, King David, brings about the fulfillment of God’s judgment that “the sword will never leave his house (2 Samuel 12:10-12) .” This is definitely a partial fulfillment of this promise. Either the driver was not paying attention (or was not sober), or he had intended to change lanes at the … GenesisExodusLeviticusNumbersDeuteronomyJoshuaJudgesRuth1 Samuel2 Samuel1 Kings2 Kings1 Chronicles2 ChroniclesEzraNehemiahEstherJobPsalmsProverbsEcclesiastesSong of SongsIsaiahJeremiahLamentationsEzekielDanielHoseaJoelAmosObadiahJonahMicahNahumHabakkukZephaniahHaggaiZechariahMalachiMatthewMarkLukeJohnActsRomans1 Corinthians2 CorinthiansGalatiansEphesiansPhilippiansColossians1 Thessalonians2 Thessalonians1 Timothy2 TimothyTitusPhilemonHebrewsJames1 Peter2 Peter1 John2 John3 JohnJudeRevelation, Select an Ending Point Major Prophets Ahithophel was renowned for his wisdom and wise counsel (2 Samuel 16:23). 2 Kings. 2 Amnon became so obsessed with his sister Tamar that he made himself ill. She was a virgin, and it seemed impossible for him to do anything to her. Amnon was so distressed over his sister Tamar that he became sick; for she was a virgin. 2 Samuel 9:1 New Living Translation (NLT) David’s Kindness to Mephibosheth. Read 2 Samuel 13:21–39 aloud in your group, and look for how Tamar’s brother Absalom responded to what Amnon did to Tamar. Victims of sexual abuse can often feel overlooked, isolated, and ashamed. Please let Tamar my sister come and make a couple of cakes for me: Amnon’s behavior was clearly childish, and David indulged it. I. -------------------- And David mourned for his son every day. Blue Letter Bible is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization. Luke-Acts He brings you flowers, but he’s pushing hard for a sexual relationship. c. King David longed to go to Absalom: After three years, the sting of Amnon’s murder was not as sharp. And he said to him, “Why are you, the king’s son, becoming thinner day after day? Then she took flour and kneaded it, made cakes in his sight, and baked the cakes. 3. ii. But Absalom fled and went to Talmai the son of Ammihud, king of Geshur. Do not do this disgraceful thing! c. Put this woman out... bolt the door behind her: Tamar deserved better treatment as an Israelite. 2 Samuel 13. c. But he refused to eat: Amnon showed by this that everything he told David was a lie. David sent for him to come and see him. Instead, he asked if there were any of Saul's family members still alive so he could help them. The New Testament 1 Chronicles. Major Prophets When King David heard of all these things, he was very angry: David was right to be angry, but he didn’t do anything to either protect Tamar or to correct Amnon. Will you not tell me?” Amnon said to him, “I love Tamar, my brother Absalom’s sister.” So Jonadab said to him, “Lie down on your bed and pretend to be ill. And when your father comes to see you, say to him, ‘Please let my sister Tamar come and give me food, and prepare the food in my sight, that I may see it and eat it from her hand.’ “. Bible > Commentaries > 2 Samuel 13:14 2 Samuel 13:14 However, he would not listen to her voice: but, being stronger than she, forced her, and lay with her. 2 Samuel 3. The process began with the Lord revealing David’s sin to the prophet Nathan, who in turn confronted David about it. God … (1-2) Amnon’s infatuation with Tamar. Historical Books Prophets Major Prophets David’s fall into sin and his unwillingness to repent have led him to the place where God had to deal with His sin. Lesson: I Samuel 13:5-14; Time of Action: 1041 B.C. He didn’t need to say, “And then force yourself on Tamar,” because in their shared wickedness, Jonadab and Amnon thought the same wicked thoughts. Put this woman out, away from me, and bolt the door behind her.” Now she had on a robe of many colors, for the king’s virgin daughters wore such apparel. a. The Whole Bible Poetical Books 2 Samuel 9:1-13 NIRV. Johannine Writings Poetical Books c. The king and all his servants wept very bitterly: David is rightly grieved at learning of the death of his eldest son, the Crown Prince Amnon. At that moment, Absalom gave the order to “Strike Amnon!” and they murdered him. This made David partly responsible for their meeting, just as Amnon got David to allow Tamar to visit him with food. Absalom was second. a. Absalom has killed all the king’s sons, and not one of them is left: It is significant that David did not react to this news with disbelief. 1 Kings. 1 Chronicles. 2 Samuel 5:2 "Also in time past, when Saul was king over us, thou wast he that leddest out and broughtest in Israel: and the LORD said to thee, Thou shalt feed my people Israel, and thou shalt be a captain over Israel." Do not do this disgraceful thing! Amnon took Jonadab’s wicked advice quickly and completely. If you really love him, make him wait until you’re married. LESSON 18: GOD IS JUST. 2 Samuel 13 13 In the course of time, Amnon son of David fell in love with Tamar, the beautiful sister of Absalom son of David. Passwords should have at least 6 characters. As sad as this passage is, it … It would shame Tamar and reveal Amnon as one of the fools. 2 Samuel 24. Here he admitted his incestuous desire as he made the wicked suggestion to Tamar. 3. Amnon and Tamar. David was never this dominated by lust, but he was pointed in the same direction. It may be that David was conscious of his own guilt in a similar matter and therefore felt a lack of moral authority to discipline his own son. Then Absalom said, “If not, please let my brother Amnon go with us.” And the king said to him, “Why should he go with you?” But Absalom urged him; so he let Amnon and all the king’s sons go with him. She did not give place to the voice of shame saying, “This was somehow your fault.”. 1. -------------------- 2 Samuel 15 - Absalom's Conspiracy - Sermon from JPC - Clayton TV ... David Wilkerson - Do You Really Believe in Miracles | Full Sermon - Duration: 40:13. After this Absalom the son of David had a lovely sister, whose name was Tamar; and Amnon the son of David loved her.Amnon was so distressed over his sister Tamar that he became sick; for she was a virgin.And it was improper for Amnon to do anything to her. If David had administered Biblical correction according to Exodus 22:16-17 and Deuteronomy 22:28-29, Absalom would not have felt so free to administer his own brutal correction. When preaching on this text, we should take great care to make certain that we do not gloss too easily past the violation that she experienced. His devious nature set the stage for future revenge. The name Absalom means “His Father’s Peace.” The name Amnon means “Faithful, Stable.” “None of them answered their names.” (Trapp), But Amnon had a friend whose name was Jonadab the son of Shimeah, David’s brother. a. Amnon hated her exceedingly: This revealed Amnon’s attraction for Tamar for what it was – lust, not love. (2Sa 13:6-10) Amnon pretends illness in order to be alone with Tamar. This evil of sending me away is worse than the other that you did to me: What Amnon did to Tamar was wrong, but he could still somewhat redeem the situation by either marrying her or paying her bride-price in accordance with Exodus 22:16-17 and Deuteronomy 22:28-29. Now Jonadab was a very crafty man. And the young man who was keeping watch lifted his eyes and looked, and there, many people were coming from the road on the hillside behind him. Share this page using one of these tools: Email / username or password was incorrect! A Friend in Need or The Trail of Tears (2 Samuel 15:13 --16:23) 17. Amnon lusted after Tamar and called it love. “Nothing is more unsafe to be trusted, than the fair looks of a festered heart.” (Trapp). -------------------- Our website uses cookies to store user preferences. You’re on your own. The New Testament 2 Samuel 22. Minor Prophets This is often how the iniquity of the fathers is carried on by the children to the third and fourth generations (Exodus 20:5). You’re no longer a challenge. a. Historical Books print slides mp3. i. Amnon probably thought he had concealed his crime. The hatred with which he hated her was greater than the love with which he had loved her: Amnon had no real love for Tamar, only lust – and so he immediately felt guilty over his sin. Historical Books Nevertheless, it was so obvious to Absalom that he immediately knew that Amnon was responsible. For though the words may vary, still the meaning of them is the same. Even wise men can be led into siding with divisive leaders. Ahava Jerusalem 21,920 views. Tamar did whatever she could to avoid this and all the blame clearly rests on Amnon. 4 Ways Sin Destroys Families (Session 7 – 2 Samuel 13:15-20,31-39) July 9, 2018 by Mike Livingstone. i. “Let me give a friendly, fatherly tip unto all of you young girls, who may be in the position of Tamar, in that you have some fellow who is really pressing hard to have sex with you. c. Where could I take my shame? Certainly a man never sees the worst of himself until it reappears in his child.” (Meyer), b. Absalom spoke to his brother Amnon neither good nor bad: Absalom played it cool. For he had been comforted concerning Amnon, because he was dead. Amnon and Tamar. 2 Samuel 13:1 "And it came to pass after this, that Absalom the son of David had a fair sister, whose name [was] Tamar; and Amnon the son of David loved her." Tamar deserved better treatment as a princess. If this was the case, it was a grave miscalculation on David’s part. Do not be afraid. And Amnon said to her, “Arise, be gone!”. Ambition mixed with bitterness and revenge is a deadly snare. It was even more difficult for him because she was a virgin – meaning that she was available for marriage, but not to Amnon because marriage between half-brother and half-sister was forbidden. After two full years: Two years went by but Absalom did not stop plotting the revenge of Amnon’s sin against Tamar. (2Sa 13:23-27) Absalom invites all the king’s sons to a feast. Then Absalom came to the king and said, “Kindly note, your servant has sheepshearers; please, let the king and his servants go with your servant.” But the king said to Absalom, “No, my son, let us not all go now, lest we be a burden to you.” Then he urged him, but he would not go; and he blessed him. Wisdom Literature Major Prophets Luke-Acts Pauline Epistles Two others also received great esteem ( 2 Samuel 23:18-23): Abishai, and Benaiah. 2 Samuel - Lesson 13 11.12.2020. As we turned back onto the road toward home, a car suddenly appeared from behind us traveling at a fairly high rate of speed. He became famous for his military prowess, and God gave him victory wherever he went (2 Samuel 8:13 … 2 Samuel 4. 2 Samuel 19. General Epistles He’s conquered, and he’s off for new conquests. David’s forces continued to conquer surrounding nations so that Israel was no longer oppressed by people who had not been driven out when the Hebrews first entered the Promised Land. 16:11-13). [A previous revision of this page can be found here]. It was a garment of privilege and status, showing the person did not have to work much. Johannine Writings Note: MLA no longer requires the URL as part of their citation standard. It’s too bad that men don’t often respond to godly advice the same way. Then he called his servant who attended him, and said, “Here! (2Sa 13:16-18) Amnon casts Tamar out of his presence. 1. The Old Testament a. b. Cookie Notice: The Gospels Don’t give in. We pulled into a store to buy some ice cream for dessert. This evil of sending me away is worse than the other that you did to me.” But he would not listen to her. 9 One day David asked, “Is anyone in Saul’s family still alive—anyone to whom I can show kindness for Jonathan’s sake?” The Old Testament Now therefore, let not my lord the king take the thing to his heart, to think that all the king’s sons are dead. 2 Samuel 13 ppt 2 Samuel 13 script Chapter 15 2 Samuel 15 ppt 2 Samuel 15 script Chapter 16,19 2 Samuel 16, 19 ppt 2 Samuel 16, 19 script . And David sent home to Tamar: This was what Amnon wanted. GenesisExodusLeviticusNumbersDeuteronomyJoshuaJudgesRuth1 Samuel2 Samuel1 Kings2 Kings1 Chronicles2 ChroniclesEzraNehemiahEstherJobPsalmsProverbsEcclesiastesSong of SongsIsaiahJeremiahLamentationsEzekielDanielHoseaJoelAmosObadiahJonahMicahNahumHabakkukZephaniahHaggaiZechariahMalachiMatthewMarkLukeJohnActsRomans1 Corinthians2 CorinthiansGalatiansEphesiansPhilippiansColossians1 Thessalonians2 Thessalonians1 Timothy2 TimothyTitusPhilemonHebrewsJames1 Peter2 Peter1 John2 John3 JohnJudeRevelation, Select a Beginning Point 2 Samuel 13:1 begins “Now Absalom” — Absalom is going to be the new key player on the stage of David’s life. But now hold your peace, my sister. Log in, Ecclesiastes: Bible Study & FREE Video Series, Rest & Release: Bible Study & Free Video Series. b. I love Tamar: As later events will show, he did not love Tamar at all. Yet David’s lack of correction against Amnon contributed to this murder. Tamar didn’t go to her father David because she knew he tended to be indulgent to his sons, and he excused all kinds of evil in them. (2Sa 13:37-39) Absalom flees to Geshur. Then Jonadab the son of Shimeah, David’s brother, answered and said, “Let not my lord suppose they have killed all the young men, the king’s sons, for only Amnon is dead. “They say a man never hears his own voice till it comes back to him from the phonograph. In this single-minded lust, Amnon only built upon the example of his father David. -------------------- This was evidently the same Benaiah who became the head of David"s bodyguard ( 2 Samuel 20:23), a position similar to the one that David had occupied in Saul"s army ( 1 Samuel 22:14). Now when she had brought them to him to eat, he took hold of her and said to her, “Come, lie with me, my sister.” And she answered him, “No, my brother, do not force me, for no such thing should be done in Israel. Ecclesiastes: An In-Depth Bible Study and FREE Video Series, Ruth: An In-Depth Bible Study and FREE Video Series, Making Your Home a Haven Annual Challenge. a. Sunday, August 2, 2020. Recognizing the value of consistent reflection upon the Word of God in order to refocus one's mind and heart upon Christ and His Gospel of peace, we provide several reading plans designed to cover the entire Bible in a year. David reacted with mourning instead of disbelief. b. Absalom had sheepshearers in Baal Hazor: Sheep shearing was a festive time, and it was natural that Absalom had a great feast and invited Amnon and all the king’s sons. Video Audio. Johannine Writings This may be because he felt guilty that in having so many wives, children, and responsibilities of state, he didn’t take the time to be a true father to his children. 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